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Thanksgiving Planning Guide: A Manual for a Stress Free Holiday Meal

Thanksgiving Planning Guide: A Manual for a Stress Free Holiday Meal

My first thanksgiving out of college, a friend and I decided to take on the challenge of cooking a full thanksgiving by ourselves. We’d never had the opportunity to do it as our parents usually took control and we were just bystanders. Honestly, I was just teaching myself to cook so this was a huge undertaking. We did it all from scratch and it was amazing.

It’s been a decade since that first thanksgiving and not all have gone so well. I’ve burnt and undercooked turkeys (sometimes at the same time) and completely forgotten to make stuffing or another essential side. Since I’ve met my husband and joined our two large families, I’ve been cooking for large groups of 10-20 on Thanksgiving. I usually have plenty of help but when you host and your guests are from out of town then the majority of the responsibility falls squarely on your shoulders. I learned that I needed to get serious about organization and simplification because it’s super bad if you ruin the bird in front of 20 people. People actually get angry if there is no turkey on turkey day.

This year I really felt like I got into a thanksgiving groove and wanted to share how it can be done. I created a manual for you on cooking a really great Thanksgiving or holiday meal. All the recipes are from scratch and use as many whole foods as possible. You can use the exact recipes or just use this as a guide and insert your own family recipes. I’ve scheduled everything so you only need one oven and a standard size refrigerator.

Thanksgiving Planning Guide: A Manual for a Stress Free Holiday Meal

The Menu

Turkey. I always brine my turkey for 24 hours in advance. It keeps the bird moist and flavorful. Use a brining bag and The Pioneer Woman’s brine. – You won’t be sorry. If you need info on cooking the turkey, Butterball has epic charts on roasting.

Mashed Potatoes. Basic mashed potatoes are simple and delicious. No need to do anything fancy.

Stuffing. I’ve tried a variety of different stuffing’s but Ina Garten’s Sausage and Herb Stuffing is outstanding.

Cranberry Sauce. Making cranberry sauce from fresh cranberries is surprising easy. I like to add a little cinnamon and nutmeg to Simply Recipe’s basic Cranberry Sauce recipe.

Green Beans. Again, simple is best. Use the freshest green beans you can find and let the natural flavor shine with my Basic Green Beans recipe.

Sweet Potatoes. I’m not a fan of super sugary sweet potatoes. You can add a little bit of sugar to my Gingered Sweet Potatoes but the ginger adds so much flavor that you don’t really need it.

Creamed Corn. My niece demands Creamed Corn every Thanksgiving. It’s become a staple on our Thanksgiving table and there are never any leftovers.

Gravy. I do a version of Uncle Jerry’s Giblet Gravy every year. I love using the giblets because it adds so many flavors. Sometimes I sometimes add a splash of Worcestershire sauce at the end. Just make sure to salt and pepper to taste AFTER you add the sauce.

Pumpkin Pie. I always thought my mom made the best pumpkin pie but turns out it was just the recipe off the back of a can of Libby’s pumpkin puree. If you’re into pumpkin with a twist try my Chocolate Pumpkin Pie recipe. It satisfies your chocolate lovers as well as those traditional pumpkin pie loving guests.

Whipped Cream. My Coffee Spiked Whipped Cream is out of this world but if you’re not into the coffee liqueur then just replace it with vanilla extract.

Chocolate Pumpkin Pie

The Schedule

The month before thanksgiving. 

  • Start clearing out your freezer. You need to make room for stock, pie dough, etc.

Two weeks before thanksgiving. 

  • If you want to make your own stock, make it now and store it in the freezer until you are ready to use.

The weekend before thanksgiving. 

  • Make your pie crust and place it in the freezer. Buy your bird and brining bag. Keep in mind that a 12-pound bird will take at least 4 days to defrost in the refrigerator. If you’re getting a larger bird then plan accordingly. You may need a few extra days to defrost.
  • I suggest buying your brining bag well in advance because they may just sell out in the days leading up to turkey day.

Three days before thanksgiving. 

  • Finish grocery shopping for all the trimmings.

Two days before thanksgiving. 

  • Defrost the piecrust in the refrigerator.
  • Make the brine and then place it in the refrigerator until you are ready to brine the bird. The brine needs to be cold before you can add the bird.

Day before thanksgiving. 

  • Make the cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes and whipped cream. If you’re running out of space in your fridge you can always add the finished potatoes to a resealable plastic bag and then transfer them to a casserole dish the next day to reheat.
  • Brine the turkey. Place the turkey in a bringing bag and then pour the brine over the bird. I’ve tried using a stockpot but bringing bags are so much easier.
  • If you using the gizzards for the gravy, chop up the liver and heart, then set aside with the neck in the refrigerator.
  • Prep as much of the food as you can such as cut the bread for the stuffing, snap the ends off the green beans, set the table, etc.

Thanksgiving morning

  • Make the pie BEFORE you start cooking the bird. When it’s finished, place it in the refrigerator until you are ready to serve.
  • Put the bird into the oven.
  • While the bird is cooking prepare the creamed corn and stuffing then place in the refrigerator.

One hour left on the bird

  • When you have about an hour to go left on the bird, bring the water to a slow boil for the green beans. You want the water boiling when you are ready to cook the green beans.
  • Remove the stuffing, creamed corn, mashed potatoes and sweet potatoes from the fridge and let sit at room temperature until you are ready to finish cooking. You don’t want to go right from the fridge to a hot oven. Casserole dishes are strong enough so that it shouldn’t break during the extreme temperature change but it’s better to be safe than sorry. Also, it’s faster to reheat something from room temp than super cold.

Bird’s done! Now what?

  • Remove the turkey from the oven and place on the platter. Cover with aluminum foil and let rest for about 10 minutes to seal in the juices.
  • Add the green beans to the boiling water and let cook for about 5-7 minutes.
  • Pour the turkey drippings into a large sauté pan and make the gravy.
  • Place the mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, creamed corn and stuffing in the oven and cook until finished. Keep in mind that if you made a boatload of potatoes and it’s considerably larger than the creamed corn and stuffing then it will take longer to heat.

It’s almost time to eat.

  • Remove the green beans from the boiling water and add to a bowl and toss with the remaining ingredients to finish.
  • Place the cranberry sauce on the table along with the green beans, gravy, stuffing, creamed corn, mashed potatoes and sweet potatoes.
  • Carve the turkey and you are ready to eat!
  • When you are ready to eat dessert, just pull it out of the refrigerator and serve.

Thanksgiving Planning Guide: A Manual for a Stress Free Holiday Meal . Although this would work for ANY holiday meal.

Tips to keep it simple.

Use paper plates. I prefer eating off of nice plates but once I’ve eaten, I’m done. Thanksgiving is a marathon and as soon as you sit down and start to relax your body physical rejects anymore cooking or cleaning. I don’t want to do anything else and that includes additional dishes. The pots, pans and serving dishes are more than enough to clean.

Wear comfortable shoes and clothing. If you’re hosting thanksgiving, you’ll be on your feet all day long. Even if you have an army of friends and family that are wiling to help, you’ll be busy all day. You can’t be wearing heels in the kitchen and run around for 5 hours. Also, you can look nice but wear something that you don’t mind getting splattered with turkey juice. I have a tendency to wear all black and have a back up outfit just in case of accidents. This year I ended up hugging the raw turkey (it was slippery and I didn’t want it to hit the floor) and needed to change my shirt before it even went into the oven.

Prep as much as you can in advance. Doing as much as you can in advance means that you have more time to relax and enjoy your family on Thanksgiving Day. The night before the big event, I place stickie notes with the name of the recipe that will be served in the casserole dish and set aside serving spoons, set the table, and set up any seasonal decorations I want to use.

Make a Thanksgiving Day cooking schedule. I’m a list person. I make lists of things to do the week leading up to thanksgiving; lists of what to buy; list of who’s coming; and menu lists. My husband thinks I’m nuts and I realize that it’s borderline obsessive. However, it keeps me organized. At the very least, I’d recommend making a schedule of things to do and when for Thanksgiving Day. The day gets hectic and I constantly check the schedule to see if I’m forgetting something or if I need to add something to the oven. I’ve skipped the schedule in thanksgivings’ past and have also forgotten to make the gravy or the mashed potatoes aren’t done until about an hour after the turkey. Planning the day out in advance keeps you on task so you don’t need to think about it in the moment.

Only make a few dishes. The first year that my husband and I joined our families at Thanksgiving we had 20 different people and every single one of them wanted a particular dish on the table. We ended up with 17 side dishes and enough food for 50 people. It was ridiculous. I’ve learned to stop taking requests and stick to the traditional meal. We may switch out a few dishes from year to year but there are a few family favorites that are regulars ever year.

Have disposable containers ready for leftovers for your guests. I love thanksgiving but I don’t want to be eating the same food for three days. I always have plastic, disposable containers ready for guests to take home leftovers.

Don’t experiment with extravagant dishes. Unless you have serious skills in the kitchen and an army of skilled helpers then I’d recommend keeping it simple. It can be risky to experiment on dishes where the recipe fails. It’s a shame to spend time on a dish that tastes awful or goes straight into the trash because it’s inedible. There isn’t time for these screw-ups on thanksgiving. I recommend using the best ingredients and keeping it as simple as possible so that everything tastes great and your guests are happy.



Thanksgiving Planning Guide: A Manual for a Stress Free Holiday Meal. Although this could be used for ANY holiday meal.

How to Host a Fourth of July Cookout

This post is sponsored by Hebrew National kosher hot dogs.

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

The fourth of July may just be my favorite holiday. You get warm weather, fireworks, family and friends, not to mention cooking out on the grill. If you like easy entertaining then you’ll love my tips on how to host a fourth of July cookout.

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

  • Set up a hot dog bar. Hebrew National All-Beef Franks are a must for any cookout. I’m not a fan of mystery meat so getting their all-beef dogs are a no brainer for me. Premium meats call for premium toppings, so I like to move beyond the basics and offer a smorgasbord of toppings to create the ultimate hot dog bar. A few of my favorite toppings* are . . .
    • Kimchi
    • Sriracha
    • Pickled vegetables
    • Guacamole
    • Grilled Onions
    • Tomatoes
    • Salsa
    • Roasted Red Peppers
    • Hummus
    • Potato Chips
    • Cheese
    • BBQ Sauce
    • Mac and Cheese
    • Old Bay Seasoning
    • Cocktail Sauce (ketchup and horseradish)
    • Pickles
    • Relish
    • Tortilla Chips
    • Curried Mustard (mustard and curry powder)
    • Cole Slaw
    • Pepperoncini
    • Pineapple

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

  • Make it a potluck. Sure, you can cook enough food for an army but why would you want too? Enlist your friends and guests to each bring a dish. You’ll end up with a variety of food with significantly less work. Parties are so much more fun when you can share in the responsibilities.

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

  • Red, white and blue décor is a must. The fourth of July is one of the biggest bashes of the summer so it’s time to get festive and decorate for your event. I like to keep the useful items (plates, flatware, napkins, etc.) simple so that I can use them all summer long. That way you can have fun with a few 4th of July specific décor pieces without spending a fortune.

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

  • Prepare a playlist to keep the party going. Music keeps the mood of any party light and festive. It’s nice to have something playing in the background while you’re at the grill or playing a game of bocce ball. Here’s my Fourth of July playlist.
    • Born in the USA by Bruce Springstein
    • Party in the USA by Miley Cyrus
    • Fireworks by Katy Perry
    • American Pie by Don McLean
    • Sweet Home Alabama by Lynard Skynard
    • Philadelphia Freedom by Elton John
    • America Beautiful by Ray Charles
    • America by Neil Diamond
    • American Pie by Madonna
    • All-American Girl by Carrie Underwood
    • American Girl by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

How to Host a 4th of July Cook Out

AuthorLogoWhat makes a Hebrew National kosher hot dog premium? It’s all about what makes the cut (And what doesn’t). We’re choosy about what goes into our franks – we use only premium cuts of 100% kosher beef from the front half of the cow and then choose the best from that. No artificial flavors, colors, fillers or by-products. When your hot dog is Kosher, that’s a hot dog you can trust! For more summer fun with Hebrew National, visit

*The combination of franks and these toppings may not be Kosher.